Conference Call

You are invited to share some time looking at important issues. 

Christians on Ageing

gathers people together to share knowledge and experience on things that matter right now and new ideas that need a bigger audience.  These gatherings are called Conference Calls.

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The most recent Conference Call was on 15 March 2022.  The topic was:

Predatory Marriage – context and related issues

Daphne Franks led the discussion

Daphne’s mother Joan was known to have dementia. Daphne had taken over management of her affairs through Power of Attorney, yet a marriage conducted in secret whilst her mother was living with this impairment has been deemed legal, all her assets on death passing to the man she ‘married’. Daphne will explain the circumstances and describe this growing problem and approaches being pursued to attempt to counter it. 

You can read a full report here.

 

Another recent Conference Call was on 15 February 2022.  The topic was

Parish Nursing: What is this and what can it do for you?

 Anne Taylor – Director of Nursing, Parish Nursing Ministries led the discussion

Parish Nursing was mentioned several times during discussions at our October 2021 webinar. This is an opportunity to learn more about it and to set it in context alongside other Christian initiatives reaching out to older people in difficulty.

You can read a report of the discussion here. 

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Register your interest in the next Call by e-mail: discussion@christiansonageing.org.uk

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You are also invited to a special talk  at our Annual General Meeting on 27 April 2022  1pm to 2.30 pm.

Our Guest Speaker will be Professor Emeritus Peter Coleman of The University of Southampton

A reflection on 50 years’ experience of interviewing older people about their attitudes to the Christian faith.

More details will be circulated in our next newsletter. If you would like to be on the mailing list please use the contact form on the Home Page of the website.

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Read about a recent Conference Call

Reflecting on the current position and spiritual lives of older Christians as we enter a new year still immersed in multiple crises

 

Notes of the Conference Call held by Zoom on 18 January 2022 are available here.

Participants shared the stories of their experience, living in a world where faith is challenged – not just by Covid 19 and its after-effects – but, by the disappearance of more and more people from the life of the Churches.  The stories do not dwell on the sadness this can cause in the older generation but on the hope generated by the many new ways of being a ‘missionary community of believers’.

We asked ther questions:

How are we feeling as older individual Christians?   And what of our churches?

David Jolley – Chair of Christians on Ageing and a retired Psychogeriatrician led the discussion

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Another recent Conference Call discussed

Grandparenting

The session was led by Dr Sarah Holmes, Lecturer in Early Childhood Studies at Liverpoool Hope University. You can read a report of the discussion here.

The role of grandparents can be crucial in passing-on the information young people need if they are to decide to accept and practice the Christian faith.  The demands of the modern economy of work and the attitudes and approaches favoured in a secular society  pose both a challenge and an opportunity for grandparents who can act as benign messengers of belief.

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At a previous Conference Call we discussed

 Fragile Churches

 

Notes from a Conference Call held on 19 October 2021 led by the Reverend Canon Professor Leslie Francis.  You will find a Report of the presentation and discussion of this fascinating topic here, along with links to research references and other useful material for further study.

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Conference Calls are open to all and there is no charge for taking part.

If you would like to join one or all of the new series just write to David Jolley using the e-mail link discussion@ccoa.org.uk  You will need to be able to access Zoom but there is no need to take out a subscription; use your search engine to learn about how to do this if you have not tried this new technology already.   You will be sent an e-mail with a link allowing you to join the discussion nearer the time of the Call.

Each session is led by someone with knowledge of the subject who will usually give a shoirt introduction to the theme.  Numbers for each session are limited to around a dozen in order to allow meaningful discussion.   A report is produced and is circulated to all participants before publication on our website.

Please ask any more questions when you register your interest.

Register your interest or enquire about places on future Conference Calls by e-mailing 
discussion@ccoa.org.uk

 

We have discussed these topics in the recent past

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Older people and spiritual strength in the world of nature

We are surrounded by the beauty of nature and immersed in its power: but how much do we really ‘notice’ in our busy everyday lives? This session explored the emotional and spiritual benefits of connecting with nature, stimulating the senses, boosting physical and mental health, enhancing wellbeing.  Research evidence was explored that demonstrates the impact of nature on people’s physical and mental health.  Participants were invited to share their own experiences of engaging with resources of nature and to consider how they can use natural resources in therapeutic and pastoral work with older people, people living with dementia, family carers – and everyone.

The discussion was informed by the work of Barbara Stephens who is Chief Executive of Dementia Pathfinders and Jacquie Nunn who told the story of her husband’s living with dementia and her share in that story.

“An intensely moving Conference Call”

You can read the full report of the discussion here.

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The importance of faith aamongst black older Christians

What did we talk about?     What did we discover?    What do we hope for now?

The session was led by the Revd Charles Kwaku-Odoi with the Revd Emmanuel Ajoku who work with black Christians and others in the Greater Manchedster area.

A report of the discussion dealing with how black Churches emerged within immigrant communities and how these Churches have responded to the needs of black older people,especially in matters of health and spiritual support is available on the Conference Call pages of our website.

Faith is an important part of many older Black people, as a matter-of-fact faith is engrained in their lives. In most cases it does not just define who they are, or what they do, but it also shapes their life day-to-day choices.  Older Black Christians use their faith as a coping mechanism. When facing life stressors, their religious beliefs help them to manage personal behaviour and response to others. Faith is woven in the intergenerational engagement in the Black community, the interactions with the younger generation. Faith comes to the fore in overall health and wellbeing decision-making. Most importantly, Older Black Christians build their resilience and positive attitude towards life via their religious beliefs, largely Christianity.  For older Black Christians, losing touch with God could be the start of a myriad of issues including depression, anxiety or worthlessness of life. Older Black Christians are adept at using scriptural references in day-to-day situations. They say after their loved ones have been wronged, “don’t worry, the Lord will punish the wicked”. This is their approach to conflict-resolution and maintain peace. A constant reference to the supremacy of God and a determiner of outcomes are spontaneous natural responses. Faith is the best inheritance they are planning to leave behind for their children, grandchildren and generations after.

The report can be read in full here.

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Supporting Care Home staff and Care at Home staff

 What did we talk about?     What did we discover?    What do we hope for now?

The session was led by Maureen O’Neill, CEO Faith in Older People with a focus on the issues which have emerged for health and social care staff in our care homes and care at home organisations as a result of the pandemic.  These were explored through the lens of a recent review of the effectiveness of the listening and caring service set up by Faith in Older People as a response to the pressures and fears experienced by these staff during this past year.

You can read a full report of the discussion here.  These are some highlights:

• Helping staff to understand their own spiritual dimension
• Holistic approach combines emotional, spiritual and physical support
• Fears about discussing death can be overcome
• Working with statutory bodies takes time and effort
• ‘We don’t need you today – we have an entertainer in’
• More resources needed to help life/death conversations to happen

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Christians and Hospitals

 What did we talk about?     What did we discover?    What do we hope for now?

 The session was led by Marion Shoard, author of How to Handle Later Life and a trustee of Christians on Ageing.  It was informed by presentations by two hospital chaplains:  The Revd Jane Harris of the Rotherham NHS Foundation Trust and The Revd Elizabeth Baughen, who trained as a general nurse and a Christian counsellor before ordination and is now a part-time C of E chaplain at Camden and Islington Mental Health Trust; she is also a trustee of Christians on Ageing.

You can read a full report of the discussion here.  These are some highlights:

•  Illness points us to purpose and vision in living
• Chaplaincy in hospital is a channel for all sorts
• Staff and families trust the chaplains
• Relationship-building within and outside hospital
• Mental health hospitals care for people who are very ill
• Chaplains in all hospitals are working without vital volunteer help
• Cuts to the number of available beds in all hospitals have been severe
• There are many, many examples of great initiatives

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Valuing the Narratives of Older People

 What did we talk about?     What did we discover?    What do we hope for now?

 

The session was led by the Revd Dr Graham Hawley.  You can read a full report of the discussion here.  These are some highlights:

• Older people have stories to tell from long lives
• Church communities are built around older members
• Narrative helps us all to find meaning and purpose
• Older people are not just sitting around waiting to die
• Older people are happy to talk about death
• The medical profession and clergy are too shy to talk
• There are many reports and references worth a look

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Are we dispirited? 

Older Christians and Mental Health at the start of 2021

 What did we talk about?     What did we discover?    What do we hope for now?

The session was led by David Jolley, Chair of Christians on Ageing.  You can read the full report here.  Here are some highlights:

• Some people have suffered terribly
• The signs of need have often not been recognised
• We now care about Care Homes but forget sheltered housing
• Data protection can lead to care being blocked
• Covid did not cause but has certainly exposed many problems
• Simple ideas, helping us all to keep in touch, actually do work
• There’s tons of research but it needs to be used

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Connecting people living with dementia to nature and the arts

What did we talk about?     What did we discover?   What do we hope for now?

The session was led by Barbara Stephens with Kathryn Rowland, Charlotte Evans and Julie Foord.  You can read the full report here.  These are some highlights:

• The impact of illness and disability on ‘self’
• Finding nourishment within just two hundred steps
• Photos that make you smile
• Paintings that lead to words, music and dance
• We are designed to be together
• Get the information before it is forgotten
• Bibliotherapy – books, and words of comfort
• ‘Annie’s Song’, ‘When I’m 64’, and more

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How churches can help older people struggling through the 2021 national lockdowns

 What did we talk about?     What did we discover?    What do we hope for now?

 

The session was led by Marion Shoard, a published author on issues affecting the lives of older people.  You can read the full report here.  These are some highlights:

• ‘Bubbles’ can be a lifeline if used carefully
• Telephones are making a comeback
• Digital technology is not for everyone …
• … not just because they won’t have it, but often can’t
• Homeless people are still vulnerable
• Carers themselves need help in coping with isolation
• Churches are (or should be) good at ‘walking with people’
• BAME communities really value their churches’ guidance
• Vaccination – looking out for those who we might forget
• Care Homes – the struggle to get it right

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Supporting family carers and friends of people with dementia 

The effects of the pandemic within society have been many and serious and areas of life often hidden from view have been exposed to the light of day – and fresh scrutiny.  The way in which those supporting people with dementia have themselves been shown to have needs for support has been a significant development in how we understand a growing phenomenon.  The discussion was chaired by Julia Burton-Jones of the Diocese of Rochester with a commentary from Dr Albert Jewell, a member of our Executive Committee.

Christian carers are just as likely to experience frustration, anger, grief and guilt as everyone else.

What did we talk about?     What did we discover?   What do we hope for now?

You can read the full report here.  These are some highlights:

• Lockdown means long, long days and little stimulation
• Telephone support is better than nothing – just
• Churches still have some way to go in understanding need
• Death and separation have taken their toll on raw emotions

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• Many initiatives, many good stories
• Awareness that carers will need help after the lockdowns
• Informal ‘church’ experiences growing in number and value
• Support ‘bubbles’ can provide respite

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A Care Homes Update

This is brief report of what was said.

Despite all the energy, passion and devotedness in the sector – many are feeling overwhelmed by the combination of fears and changing, restrictive rules

These are highlights of the discussion.  You can read the full report here.

• The changing guidance: what is it?
• The visiting rules: are they too complex and sometimes heartless?
• The differences between England and Scotland
• Should there be special provision for clergy visits?
• Residents and carers are not just from Christian cultures

 

• The full report has details of new publications and guides
• There are all sorts of ideas and initiatives emerging
• A call for a rethink of immigration wage rules for carers
• All views and fears need to be valued and shown respect
• Constant change means constant vigilance

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Volunteers in a church setting.

These are highlights of the discussion.  You can read the full report here.

 

• The best start: what is going on already?
• Do our volunteers know what they are meant to be doing?
• Is there adequate support and guide for volunteers?
• Are Church volunteers any different from others?
• How far can volunteers do their own thing?

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• The range of volunteer activities covers many needs
• Most volunteers are older Church members
• Guidance material is available but little known
• Secular bodies can teach Churches a lot
• Volunteering is about initiative, enthusiasm and focus

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Older and disabled people in care homes

This is a flavour of what you will find by reading the report of the discussion :

•  One of the best places to be in a care home?  Orkney!!
• The scandal of care homes being side-lined and forgotten
• The media made sure we found out: no PPE, no extra money
• The sadness of people with dementia isolated and stressed
• The short-sighted rules getting in the way of human support

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• The great amount of goodness and generosity displayed by many
• The opportunities for volunteering still there
• The new ways of doing things – zooming through the airwaves!
• “I’m not just a mask.  Here’s my photo to prove it!”

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Black and minority ethnic older people
The discussion was led by Revd Dr Joseph Cortis who is a member of the Christians on Ageing committee and Coordinator of Caritas Leeds (Catholic Diocese of Leeds).  There was a special presentation by Jabeer Butt OBE who is Chief Executive of The Race Equality Foundation.  Read the report of the discussion here.  Here are some highlights:

• Information on ethnicity is far more useful than race alone
• Is it true? BAME elders, single or couples, are less likely to be living alone
• If you are Chinese you have better health prospects among BAME elders
• Socioeconomic status, ethnicity and racism affect inequalities in health
• Covid-19: there ARE higher risks for BAME people, working and retired

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• Life expectancy in BAME communities is increasing
• Actions taken now are full of promises to tackle inequalities
• There’s lots of good ideas and initiatives – just too little publicity
• Retired BAME people make great volunteers
• Our society is a fantastic mix – it’s worth exploring more.  And we will!

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The challenge of grief 
These are highlights of the discussion.  You can read the full report here.

• A new realisation of our mortality in shared loss
• A ‘time-bomb’ of grief awaits the nation
• Thinking and talking about death cannot be avoided
• Guilt and anger are normal in bereavement
• Does it do any good to blame or complain?

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• Clapping for carers released goodwill
• Now we know: care home staff deserve better
• Lockdown: time to look in at ourselves & look out for others
• Bereavement support crucial for all, young as well as old
• Loads of helpful support services, but need to find & signpost

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Older people self-isolating at home 
These are the highlights of the discussion.  You can read the full report here.

• The oddities of policies: Who is vulnerable? Who is shielding?
• The absence of older people in the great return from lockdown
• The digital world: who is in it and who is left out?
• The role of the local church in seeking out and supporting
• Grieving alone, afraid to go out

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• Knickerbocker Glory afternoons and Cream Teas in a bag
• The work of Anna Chaplaincy
• The great range of support and help for the lonely
• The work of Holiday at Home
• The brilliance of modern media but don’t forget the telephone!

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